LETTERS TO BYRON began as a blog I updated weekly for my son Byron, whom I raised as a stay-home dad, for the first four years of his life before a corrupt legal process within British Family law ended all contact between myself and Byron. Denying me in this process even the details of his whereabouts. For seven years I wrote Letters to Byron for a reason. The book records the reason I stopped.

Family court as the name suggests is a court intended to represent the rights of children. It is also an rewarding opportunity for entitled members to generate lucrative legal charges by targeting high net worth clients and fomenting  animosity between parents made vulnerable during separation, to drive acrimonious litigation in full awareness that their maximal return is not to be found in a mediated settlement placing the child’s interests to the fore. This predatory practice is normal in family law where any high net worth couple separating are targeted by these members. Where their children are fair game in the negotiation to win the best financial settlement, no matter how much harm is done to the child’s well being.

Family law is supposed to protect children. Not abuse any child’s right to know both parents. Children’s rights monetized for the lucrative benefit of it’s members, whose behaviors exist and depend on protection by secrecy laws.

Letters to Byron
A chronological list of the last 121 letters I sent to Byron. Each with pictures.

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  Who Lies Wins. (Press Release)
2019 release: Who Lies Wins is based on an actual judgment in Britain’s family court. A document of profiteering by judges and lawyers abusing children for their family law entitlement to lucrative remuneration. Lying for profit.

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28 May, 2021. Byron’s 12’th Birthday

“My beautiful Byron,

I have now spent many years trying very hard to see you. And as you will be aware, I have not been successful.

Aside from one three week visit with us in 2014, you have not been allowed back. And since our last visit in February 2016, you have been prevented from even receiving a letter from me. Let alone a visit.

Why?

British family law is vulnerable to corrupt practice by its members.
After seven years of heartbreaking, ruinously costly battle with that immovable force called British Family law I cannot continue hoping any oversight authority looking at corruption in Family court will make criminal abuse of family law accountable.

I won’t be writing LETTERS TO BYRON anymore. I know you are blocked from any opportunity to receive any contact from me. The reasons are well documented elsewhere. In two books and countless blogs. One day you can read the content of both for a reliable account of what happened and why.

Law is a funny business. Laws change to suit convenience even when the law is obviously wrong. In 1945 Auschwitz oven-workers claimed their conduct was legal, because in fact, it was. According to German law.

Just because a law exists to enable any particular conduct does not mean that conduct represents actual justice. Whatever the law may say;
Child abuse is child abuse.
Stopping a child seeing his father is wrong, no matter how much money that earns you.
Lying in court is lying. It is always wrong. Even when the judge rules her lies are not lies.
Larceny is larceny. Lying to steal peoples homes is always wrong.
Parental alienation is wrong. Not telling children the truth is just wrong.

Every child deserves the right to see both parents. The natural law of parenting is not in any way vague on this point. Every child deserves to see both parents equally without any legal interference in this natural order.

Disabling this logic through laws that were not written for this purpose, that have been abused by grifter’s in Family Court under the pretense of being legal simply for opportunistic remunerative benefit of family court members carries an equal measure of credibility as the Auschwitz guards being exonerated because they were not breaking the law.

To date, although in excess of 1 million readers have read the story of you and me while I published LETTERS TO BYRON live; while senior establishment members have pursued efforts to introduce legislation to criminalize the abuse Family Court represents, nothing has brought change to family law.

All those hundreds of thousands of words and all those letters of support and encouragement have been in vain. Seven years have passed and nothing has changed. Adler believed that her conduct would always be kept secret from you. This belief is why she did what she did. I believe you should know what was done to stop you being with me, and why.

I wrote letters to you for over seven years. I don’t know how many reached you. The last 140 were online on the blog called LETTERS TO BYRON.

Now those letters are in a book. For when you are interested in knowing about that time. Why you didn’t see me. Why my letters to you stopped arriving. Why I never sent you and gifts. Why our video calls stopped.

I am writing today on your 12th birthday because I have no other way of wishing you happy birthday. I cannot even send a card to you, knowing your mother will prevent it reaching you. As she has done for many years now. I sent a birthday card to you at your school. Mr. Peck replied that – he could not pass it on to you because he was advised by Charlotte Adler not to. If I wanted to send you a birthday card, she told him, I should contact her lawyer, Tom Amlot. Just one more example of the lengths she has gone to to prevent you having any contact with me. Even to the extent of a card saying ‘Happy 12th Birthday.”

Every morning I still wake up hoping today will be the day I hear from you. Soon you will be old enough to make your voice heard. And you will have options.

If you choose to go to school in California, then I am sure you will have a fantastic education in which I will be directly involved on a day to day basis. You have a part in this decision. You are at that age now. You have completed your 11+ and will be starting in a new school soon.

I did try to make this offer to your though your school again this year, but solicitor Adler instructed the school to not allow me to speak with you. Or send you a letter. Your headmaster confirmed he cannot speak to me about you unless I first get a court order. That is family law.

I hope you will able to see me soon. And that you are having a happy birthday, wherever you are.

Miss you,
Love you,
Daddy

Link to the Original Blog from which the Book is extracted.

LETTERS TO BYRON in chronological order.
The original live blog pages subject to same Terms and conditions:

The first of the LETTERS TO BYRON:  The PILOT
2nd GRAHAM COY
3rd:  TOM AMLOT
4th:  Thanksgiving day
5th: MICHELE O’LEARY. The switch Judge
6th : Raining in California



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124 The last letter September 24th